Dashain is one of the most important and eagerly awaited festivals in Nepal. It’s a time when families come together, homes are filled with laughter, and the air is vibrant with traditions passed down through generations. Celebrated over fifteen days, usually in September or October, Dashain is much more than just a holiday—it’s a celebration of life, family, and the triumph of good over evil.

The festival is deeply rooted in Hindu mythology, symbolizing Goddess Durga’s victory over the demon Mahishasura. Each day of Dashain carries its own rituals and significance. It begins with Ghatasthapana, when barley seeds are sown in a sacred pot to mark the start of the festival. The culmination comes on Vijaya Dashami, when elders bless the younger members of the family with tika and jamara, wishing them health, happiness, and prosperity.

During Dashain, homes are cleaned and decorated with flowers and lights. Markets come alive with colorful decorations, new clothes, and gifts. Families visit each other, share meals, and enjoy moments of togetherness. While animal sacrifices have been a traditional practice in some communities, today many people prefer symbolic offerings, reflecting evolving values.

One of the most cherished moments is the Tika ceremony. Elders place a mixture of rice, yogurt, and vermilion on the foreheads of younger family members while reciting sacred blessings.

Blessings for men:
आयु द्रोण सुते, श्रृयं दशरथे शत्रुक्षयं राधवे
ऐश्वर्य नहुषे, गतिश्च पवने, मानं च दूर्योधने।।
Meaning: May you have the longevity of Dronacharya’s son, the accomplishments of King Dasharath, the courage of Rama, the wealth of King Nahusha, the speed of wind, the honor of Duryodhana, the generosity of the Sun, the strength of Bhima, the truthfulness of Yudhishthira, the wisdom of Vidura, and deeds like Narayana.

Blessings for women:
जयन्ती मङ्गलाकाली, भद्रकाली कपालिनी।
दुर्गा क्षमा शिवाधात्री, स्वाहा स्वधा नमोऽस्तुते।
Meaning: May the powerful goddesses who protect the world bless you with strength, remove obstacles, and accept your devotion.

These blessings remind us to live with honesty, respect, and kindness. By following these values, we honor the spirit of Dashain. May the tika, jamara, and blessings of Vijaya Dashami fill your life with energy, happiness, and success.